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Unlocking Self-Love: The Ace of Hearts and The Journey Back to your Desires 


The Ace of Hearts can show up as your birth card, in your life spread, and it can even show up as a card in your calendar reading as a tool of divination. In cardology PSYCHEology, the Ace of Hearts represents the beginning of an emotional journey—a time for new experiences, fresh perspectives, and a deep dive into the heart’s desires. The Ace of Hearts sits on the Uranus and Jupiter conjunction, and that influence reminds us that our desires are not only one-of-a-kind, and they are meant to be honored as such, but that they deserve to be explored and expanded within us. 



Embracing Your Desires with the Ace of Hearts

The Ace of Hearts teaches us a valuable lesson: your desires are yours for a reason. They aren’t meant to be altered, silenced, or bent to fit anyone else’s expectations. The Ace of Hearts influence adds a layer of individuality and freedom, urging us to accept our desires as they are, without apology. This isn't about trying to change others to align with our emotional needs—it’s about finding those who naturally complement who we are at our core.


The real challenge we often face is learning to stand courageously in our truth. When we fully embrace the things we want, we give ourselves permission to be seen as we are, without the need for approval or validation from others. 


Below is a popular interview with actress and singer Eartha Kitt who discusses her perspective on finding people to compliment us vs. compromising ourselves for others. (It should also be known that she has an Ace of Hearts as her Venus card.





What If You Don't Have the Ace of Hearts?

If you don’t have the Ace of Hearts in your life spread (that means it doesn't show up as one of the primary cards associated with your birth card), this lesson might feel foreign. You might find yourself stuck in a cycle of trying to mold others to fit your vision of what relationships should be, only to be disappointed when they resist. Here's the truth: People won't change for you. And they shouldn’t have to.


Instead, the key is to seek out those who compliment you naturally as Eartha Kitt suggests—those who resonate with your values, energy, and desires. It’s not about compromise but about connection, alignment, and emotional fulfillment. The Ace of Hearts reminds us that we are worthy of relationships that feel like home.


If you want to learn more about the cardology life spread, click here to look at some additional blog posts from Moore Cardology.



How to Apply the Ace of Hearts in Your Life

Whether the Ace of Hearts is showing up directly in your life or not, its message is universal. Here’s how you can start applying its wisdom in your journey:


  1. Reflect on Your Desires: Take some time to journal about what you truly want in your relationships. Are you honoring those desires, or are you shrinking them to fit others’ expectations?


  2. Accept People as They Are: Release the need to change others. Instead, focus on aligning with people who naturally complement your emotional needs and values.


  3. Embrace Emotional Freedom: The Uranus influence of the Ace of Hearts is all about freedom. This is your invitation to break free from limiting beliefs about love and relationships, choosing instead to honor your unique emotional path.



A Journey to Self-Love and Rebirth

The Ace of Hearts is more than just a card; it’s a symbol of personal rebirth. As you begin to honor your desires and find alignment with others who compliment you, you open the door to emotional fulfillment and deeper self-love. This is your heart’s journey, one that leads to a life full of love, connection, and freedom.


Remember, the key is in accepting that your desires are uniquely yours. They don’t need to be changed or justified. The right people will resonate with your heart’s truth, just as you are.


With love and purpose, 

Shelbie Moore, Cardology PSYCHEologist 




Is it time to make Cardology PSYCHEology a part of your life?

If you’ve made it this far, you’re ready to unlock the secrets of your psyche and discover the transformative power of Cardology! If you prefer to learn at your own pace, consider starting with a personal Cardology report available in the Moore Cardology Shop. For those seeking one-on-one guidance on this journey, visit the Moore Cardology Readings page to choose the reading that resonates best with you!

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